tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8569484475896593888.post2640482736233231258..comments2023-10-30T11:25:23.639-04:00Comments on Bea's Hive: Talking about life's ugly things...Holeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13724824435789407791noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8569484475896593888.post-4397172550348122432011-07-12T20:35:17.058-04:002011-07-12T20:35:17.058-04:00I am so glad that you posted about your wishes. So...I am so glad that you posted about your wishes. So many times outside people give their opinions and judgments without really knowing the situation or wishes of the loved one. Over the years, I've developed a tougher skin when someone offers their "free advice and comments"<br />As someone said earlier, you are a brave and gutsy lady!!! BravoRhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06471317644488778051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8569484475896593888.post-17760577901625193172011-07-07T07:45:29.666-04:002011-07-07T07:45:29.666-04:00You are the bravest, kindest, and brassiest women ...You are the bravest, kindest, and brassiest women I know...and I am so proud to call you a friend! You inspire me to be a better person. And this post really shows your spirit...again, trying to look out for someone else. Your boys were and are lucky to have such a loving mother! I know the pain you deal with every minute can make you cranky at times...(it would drive me nuts!)...but still you endure and carry on. I so hope the Philly trip has good results! Sending you tender HUGS!<br />KathyShawklhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14303018876968056901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8569484475896593888.post-81948393278922966982011-07-06T21:36:33.615-04:002011-07-06T21:36:33.615-04:00I've long thought of cremation as a very viabl...I've long thought of cremation as a very viable option. We cremated my husband, and I've told my kids that's what I want as well. <br /><br />Let's hope this isn't something Dave has to deal with anytime soon, but at least your wishes are known.elsie123https://www.blogger.com/profile/08692448403197289205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8569484475896593888.post-54938498139811784972011-07-06T09:26:23.006-04:002011-07-06T09:26:23.006-04:00THANK YOU RITA for knowing I didn't post this ...THANK YOU RITA for knowing I didn't post this for shock factor but to cover my son from those who have done nothing for me now but will be the first to jump at Dave's emotions when he simply carries out my wishes. The internet is a wonderful thing. Now anyone anywhere can log on to my blog and know what MY wishes were right here in my own words.Holeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13724824435789407791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8569484475896593888.post-44412854919257480982011-07-06T07:02:10.645-04:002011-07-06T07:02:10.645-04:00You are a wise woman. The pain he could suffer at...You are a wise woman. The pain he could suffer at the hands of those who don't know would be awful after the love and care he has given to you. You are a blessing to all who read this. Prompting them to write a letter if there will be question about their wishes. And believe it or not there always is. People you have not seen for decades come out of the woodwork to have an opinion.<br />Bless you Bea......I'll pray this next round of medication works wonders and you feel like a new person.Ritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07287238810628574373noreply@blogger.com